I don’t know about you but I cringe when my daughter Olivia asks me to take a picture of her alone or with her girlfriends. I cringe because if the picture is not PERFECT, it’s my fault. I get anxiety when I take a photo because I know she will get frustrated with me and have no patience with my picture taking skills or so-called lack of skills.
So, according to my daughter here are some tips to take a good photo of a teen with an iPhone:
- Make sure there is proper lighting! This is key! Have your teen check for lighting by taking a practice photo to make sure the picture looks good in the light.
- You have to focus on the faces and hit the box that is on your faces to focus. God help you if you don’t do that!
- Then, immediately after you do that, you click the camera button to take the picture. This has to be timed precisely right or the picture will come out dark or blurry and you will have to deal with a bad picture and the wrath of a teen.
- Be patient because you will not be taking 1 or 2 photos, try 5-6 and they will all be different poses. Be prepared to help come up with different poses if necessary.
- Their phone will always be better than your phone to take pictures. Period. End of story.
In addition to the above tips from Olivia, here are my tips to survive this task:
- Ask if you don’t know what to do but, be prepared to have a huge sigh and “OMG mom, you are so annoying”.
- Do exactly as your teen instructs.
- Practice makes perfect, You will get it after the 6th time!
- Have a sibling – your other son or daughter – take the picture! They would do a better job than you.
- Compliment the picture always. Teens need that reassurance or you will be taking pictures of them forever!
There needs to be a section in the Apple store for parents with teens to learn how to take the proper teen approved picture with an iPhone. I know I would attend!
Please share your photo taking memories of your teen or any insights or photo taking skills you may have. It could save a mom or dad!