Last week as we were shopping for my daughter for her college move. When we got home, she was so excited to show all her new purchases for her new apartment to her 14-year-old brother.
Olivia described each purchase with such enthusiasm! Her new duvet, her decorative pillows, her Keurig and so on and so on. Matthew looks straight at her and said, “When I go to college, I only need five things.” Then, he listed them:
- A computer
- A desk
- Wires for computer
When I found this out, I couldn’t help but ask Matthew why he only wanted to bring five things. He said, ” I don’t need all the frilly, decorative stuff Olivia has for college. I just need my computer and a bed.” Wow, what a difference between a daughter and son! I have one that can spend like a feene and one I have to beg to buy things.
It’s amazing how some people need or require so little to get by and are happy, while other need so much.
I love how they are so different in their needs.
Do you have teen kids who are opposite in what they say they need for college? Do you have teen siblings who are opposite from each other in general?